Dates that suit both of you
Wedding dates chosen the way a panchangam chooses them, then filtered by the two classical personal checks for both of you — a date that suits one of you is not a date. Every date carries the reasons it passed, and every empty stretch of the calendar says why it is empty and whether that is a rule no priest sets aside or a custom families sometimes do. The dates are computed on the Thirukanitha reckoning and the document says so at the top, not in an appendix, because a great many temples follow Vakya and a family should learn that before the hall is paid for.